IS LOVE A FEELING?
IS LOVE A FEELING?
FEELING GRATITUDE AND NOT GIVING IT IS LIKE WRAPPING A PRESENT AND NOT GIVING IT.
BE GRATEFUL FOR AND EMBRACE EVERY FEELING OR YOU WILL NEVER FREE YOURSELF FROM THE STRESSFUL ONES. YOU ARE WHATEVER YOU FEEL SO MY ARTICLE WILL INTRODUCE YOU TO YOUR TRUE SELF. THE ALL OF THE ALL OF WHO YOU REALLY ARE. EXPERIECE SHARE IT AND BE IT IT IS: "LOVE".
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this question searches very deeply into the essence of human life and perhaps all existence. Maybe all that really exists are feelings, and that is the answer we overlook when we ask: What is the very nature of LOVE, and what and where does it fit into what we identify as feelings?
I just took a day breather to clear myself of all of my pre-conceived ideas about LOVE in order to discover the clues needed to help come up with the answer we are looking for. Is LOVE a feeling is one very heavy and important question. To be or not to be once said will never go away. To be or not to be LOVE seems appropriate here thanks again to William Shakespeare.
Anger and fear are feelings. When we experience anger or fear LOVE is missing or hidden. Anger is caused by a thought such as "You have hurt me". Fear by a thought such as "I am no good or incompetent". What are the thoughts caused by LOVE? There are none. It is the absence of thought that allows LOVE to be experienced and expressed. LOVE is the essence and the core of our existence. It need not be identified because when we experience LOVE we know it, relish and bask in it. It cannot be described, only shared, experienced and enjoyed.
I have spent my entire life a prisoner so to speak of my poisonous memories, ideas, thoughts and beliefs that caused my stressful feelings, searching to discover why I am here and who I really am. All I ever wanted was to be free of those feelings. make them go away and never ever come back again to torture and destroy me. The most constructive thing that I could have done for myself was to embrace those stressful feelings and allow the thoughts that cause them to appear so I could use my tools and strategies to let go of them. "Go where Angels fear to tread". The last place I ever was willing to go. Now it is the first place I go. It is that dark corner of my being where all of my ghosts and monsters hide. They were only Paper Tigers with no power over me except the power I unknowingly gave them. They were safe in the knowledge that I would never open the door and let the light in that will allow me to let go of them and free myself from them forever.
My prime motivation in my journey in this world now has changed from medals, titles, fame, fortune, defending my ego and building my self esteem, to sharing and basking in LOVE. It is who I have always been looking for. It is the stuff of which I am made and the power that fuels my life force. The eternal force field of all that is or ever will be. This makes sense to me. I can now chose to stop struggling and surrender. Give up all of my worldly wants, sit back and simply enjoy being LOVE. No more worlds to conquer or crazy ambitions to distract me from enjoying who I really am. No more fear of death because as I surrender to who I am I become less of who I am not. Namely all of the distractions that are in my way of experiencing, basking in and sharing LOVE. When I am no longer what I perceive myself to be Charlie of the earth dimension, I will meld back into the force field of LOVE. It is where I come from, where I will always go back to and the very essence of my eternal soul. It is stupid to fear the concept of death (experiencing non-existence), because it is the freedom from all that is holding me back from enjoying being who I already am.
No more seeking. Just finding what is already there. Letting go of everything in my way that is not LOVE but are fear, concern, hate, bitterness, anger, hopelessness, revenge, despair, anxiety, depression, and all of the other stressful feelings that cause all of the mental and physical dis-ease I will ever experience. I want to experience and be who I really am, have a joyous mind-set and a radiant contageous SMILE.
And please decide to LOVE everything about life, the ups and downs, the wins and losses. Continue searching for who you really are, or give it all up and be LOVE now. Don't delude yourself anymore. You were meant to stay in your zone and enjoy life.
Google Charlie Shoten for his book, "No-Limit Life" and a lot more.