Intimacy / Relationships
When do you make "you and I" into the "we"?
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So when in a relationship do you make it the “We”? When do you turn it the “We” thing? “We should do this”. “We should go to the park tomorrow”. “We should go bowling tomorrow”. “We should go visit my parents…” whoa, whoa, whoa, whoa, let’s step back down a little bit with the, “We should go visit my parents”, that should not come for like two or three months, ok – parents, friends, everything else.
You need to start spending time with somebody, the “We” hints are fine, but the problem most women have about the “We” droppers, is that most men drop “We” on it way too fast, and then they never follow through with the “We”.
So what you need to do is starting learning and understanding when to drop in “We”. I’d say two, three, four dates, if you like each other, start dropping “We’s” in there and see if “We’s” become follow throughs, because you can’t become “We” unless you have the follow through. So in order to make a perfect “We”, you need to make sure that both of you like each other. Three, four dates and you can drop all the “We” hints you want. If they run with the “We”, you’ve got a “We-ism”. Hope I didn’t confuse you enough.
If you want to learn more about the “We’s”, come to me at firstname.lastname@example.org.