Intimacy / Relationships
How to Change Someoneís Behavior
Everyone can irritate you, and you can ignore it, or deal with it effective...
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Everyone can irritate you, and you can ignore it, or deal with it effectively. Learn the easy steps you can take to make a behavior change request.
Hi, Iím Wendee Mason. Have you ever been involved with somebody who just annoys you or they do something that makes you mad? Iím going to teach you a behavior change request. Everybody canít get along on the level, all the time in a relationship.
But if somebody keeps doing something over and over again what you need to do is say ďI feel blank, I feel frustrated, I feel angry, I feel irritated, when you do blank, when you pick your nose, when you are late, when you donít call me. The result is I behave asĒ and then you tell them what your behavior is. ďI want to ignore you, I want to get back at you, I want to fight with you. In the future I would like you toĒ and then you tell that what you want them to do.
The last step is you have them repeat it back. If they can repeat it back, just the way you gave it to them, and then you can negotiate what the change will be youíll have a much better relationship.
Iím Wendee Mason, smartworkshops.com