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How to Break Up with your Mate
Whether you have been dating for just a few dates, or for years, there are ...
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Whether you have been dating for just a few dates, or for years, there are some doís and doníts when breaking up. Learn the best way to break up with compassion and dignity.
Hi, Iím Wendee Mason and breaking up is hard to do. Have you ever been in a short-term or long-term relationship and you just know itís not going to go anywhere and youíre getting to be very unhappy? Hereís what not to do; never break up by e-mail or the telephone. All breakups have to be in person, because it shows that you loved and you have compassion for them and that you care for them. They deserve an Ďin personí breakup.
Number two: tell them what you learned from the relationship and how you have grown through that relationship.
But three tell them youíre not happy and youíre going to have to dissolve the relationship for your own personal sanity and your personal growth.
Now it is not your responsibility how they react; itís your responsibility to get happy yourself. So compassion, explain it and then breaking upís not so hard to do.
Iím Wendee Mason, smartworkshops.com